4 Major Problems When a Nigerian Marries an Oyinbo (Must Read)

You’ve got gotten engaged, congrats! True love
is not easy to find and when you do find it,
hold it with both arms. You’ve found someone
who is willing to love you till the day the day,
eh-yah….but wait, this person is oyinbo?
My dears, you are in for drama when you find
love in the arms of an oyinbo person. If it’s not
drama from your parents, it’s from your
relations, friends or in-laws.
People always seem to have what to say when
it comes to people marrying outside their race
no matter how normal it’s becoming everyday.
There is always one person who will be
negative.
Here are four major things that happen when
you get engaged to an oyinbo person:
1. Your parents relate your decision to the
greatest betrayals on earth.
Unless your parents have specifically
encouraged you to date other races, your
decision to marry an oyinbo person will come as
a shock. How the news will be received depends
on how dramatic your parents can be.
Some will go silent as a mouse and refuse to
say anything on the matter, while others will call
your living relatives and ask where they went
wrong with you.
They will also ask you what they did to deserve
you marrying an oyinbo person and what they
can do to change your mind. Or threaten to do
something drastic if you don’t change your
mind.
2. Everyone wants to know what is wrong other
eligible Nigerians you could have married.
This is also part of your parents reaction. Before
they accept that love can be found anywhere,
they will want to know why it wasn’t found in
the arms of a Nigerian man.
They will want to know if that is what they sent
you abroad to do; to look for a husband there.
They will ask you about past friends and
boyfriend/girlfriends and why those ones can’t
be the chosen one.
Then they will ask you what is so special with
the person you have chosen apart from the fact
that they are white. Get ready to answer plenty
jamb questions.
3. Your friends will want to know how good
they are in bed.
Yes, black men are said to be the greatest in
bed so once you say you want to spend your
life with someone who is not black, your fiends
will be curious.
They will want to know if your oyinbo boo is
greater or just as great in bed or if you are
boring and have chosen to be getting mediocre
S3@.x:’ till the day you die.
Girls are brutally honest at times and will ask
you straight up. As for the guys, they will
wonder if the oyinbo lady can cook as good as
Nigerian women or if their friend has decided he
will end bland food forever.
All these are stereotypes of course, and if you
fall in love with someone enough to marry them,
they are automatically the best everything you
have ever had.
4. People want to know if it is for love or for
the love of citizenship.
Yes, people will be curious. Whether you both
look like models or perhaps one of you is finer
than the other, people will still want to know if
it’s for love or for love of a citizenship.
Sure, marrying a citizen of your dream country
is an easy way to get a citizenship, but not
everyone takes marriage so lightly. People do
fall in love and then the citizenship is an added
bonus.