A relationship and lifestyle writer, who is also a
blogger, has penned an interesting article for
the guys who think because they are broke,
they aren’t lovable by women.
Illustrative photo
Let’s not be pretenders here and say we love
broke men, truth is no one wants to date a
broke man, money is one of the things that keep
a relationship going and strong, it doesn’t
matter who’s providing it be it the man or the
woman, as long as there’s money there’s
happiness.
So shouldn’t broke men date? or have women
flock around them, How’s it possible for
someone who can’t fulfill the financial needs of
women have one in his life? Let me give you a
small gist using my brother as a case study, loll
I hope he doesn’t read this, well he will, he
can’t kill me.
My brother happens to be someone who’s isn’t
financially buoyant now or really handsome but
I can’t count the number of girls that flock
around him, both the beautiful and the ugly and
the “Somehow” type of girls, I was always
skeptical like, how does he keep them and
always make them happy, now it’s pertinent to
know he wasn’t dating all of them, or most of
them but they always flocked around him and
one day I made it my mission to find out why.
These were the things I noticed during my SPY
mission to find out why ladies loved this shy
and gentle but still broke yet brother of mine.
You cannot be broke and have a strong name
like, Chukwuma, or Obinna, Or Gbenga or
Muyideen, these names don’t appease to
women unless you’re sitting in an air
conditioned car or something, I noticed my
brother changed his name to “Passion” mind
you his real name is Ikechukwu, sharp guy.
You cannot be broke and be rude, my brother is
one of the nicest people I know, maybe it’s a
natural gift but that guy can nice for Africa and
y’all know how ladies feel about nice guys,
especially guys they feel they can use because
he’s nice, well na so things de take enter
P@nt., from doing free assignments to being a
shoulder to cry on, mehn I wonder how these
girls flock around him.
You can’t be broke and be stingy, these girls
they know you’re broke already, they chose to
be friends with you even with your brokeness
and all of a sudden you’re eating 100 naira
bread and you don’t want to share, dude, this is
one way to chase girls far away from your life,
always be nice and calm, women love to spend
money on men they see as “Helpless but nice”
and I have noticed my brother being this way,
not just with girls this time but with everyone.
You don’t have to dress expensive, but you
need to dress nice, don’t overdo it when trying
to impress women, even if you have one shirt
make sure it’s always clean and ironed, dress
smart, dress clean but always dress nicely.
Learn to check up constantly on your female
friends, this works all the time, we love
attention, we bask in its presence and it doesn’t
matter who’s giving it to us, as a broke guy
there’re so many cheap call plans you can
choose from, when you call a lady just to check
up on her, ask about her wellbeing and
everything, believe me you’re gradually
penetrating her heart, winning her over and
making her like you more than usual, believe me
I learnt this from my brother, that guy is always
making and receiving calls.
Who says broke men can’t find the women of
their dreams, all they need do is change their
approach and personae and see things change
for the better, do these things and thanks me
later.
